Husband (53M) is once again not going to work due to all kinds of imaginary excuses!

2021.10.21 12:21 starrynight5626 Husband (53M) is once again not going to work due to all kinds of imaginary excuses!

This is my husband's jam. Sorry to be flippant about it but I've been with him for 17 years and he's gone through several jobs (you know, due to idiots who don't know what they're doing so he needs to find another job) and whenever he gets upset with a coworker or manager he ends up staying home for days and sometimes weeks, unpaid, yet never loses his job because he works the "my back is killing me and I can't do my job" angle.
Once again he is looking for another job even though when he got this one 3 years ago he swore it was a great job and it'll get him to retirement. He didn't go to work last Friday or this past Monday or Tuesday with the reasoning to me being he is just so tired he doesn't know what is wrong with him. Then Monday night he swears to me that he has to go in Tuesday because his FMLA only allows him 3 days off a month with his "bad back". Well I knew because he told me he absolutely has to go in that he definitely was NOT going in, and he didn't. He was just flippant about it when it was 5 minutes before he should have left and was still in bed. He goes "Nah, I'm going to stay home today. I'm having stomach issues." Yeah. Sure.
Finally goes into work yesterday and low and behold, he surprises me by coming home 2 hours early with the excuse "I'm just beat. I don't know what my problem is". Well I do. You hate your job and are hoping your interview for another one this week pans out so you can quit. He sits all dejected on the couch with a beer acting oh-so-tired and barely says a word for an hour. Then he has another beer and starts to get chatty. Followed by another beer, a mixed drink and before you know it, he's playing his guitar and being all loud. For someone who was SO tired, he managed to stay up until nearly 2AM playing video games and then had the energy to come to bed and wake me up for a half hour sex session! Pure BS!
He's sure he's going to get hired for this new job because it's his second interview and is going on about how the hours are a bit extreme and he won't go to work until 4PM so he has to be productive during the day and not sit around and drink and I HAVE to back him up. All of a sudden he's putting pressure on me to keep him on track with being productive! I'm not your mother! I'm not going to police your actions because I work from home. I could slack off all day and start drinking at 9AM and take naps and nobody would know the difference, but I don't because I have a job and I have the self-control to actually do it and do it well. I don't expect you to be cheering me on and keeping me on track. Yet somehow it's on me to make sure you're productive at home before you go to work. It doesn't matter what I want you to do, you're going to do what you want. I want you to go to work on a daily basis and help pay bills, but every day I'm on pins and needles wondering if you actually will go to work that day, and if you do, will you actually stay for your full shift. He doesn't give a crap how upset I get about it because he does what he wants. Oh and he knows how upset I get. I know if he gets this job, he's not going to come to bed until 4AM, sleep until noon and then spend the afternoon until he goes to work playing video games or watching tv. He's not going to be productive and no doubt will get upset with me because I'm not encouraging him to be productive.
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I am not a native english speaker. I am currently reading a report and I have come across this scentence that I dont understand.
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2021.10.21 12:21 Iliketomobit Question regarding widescreen videos on YouTube and notches

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I apologize if there's already been a post on this that I couldn't find, but does anyone know of any good books (or parts of books) focused on liquid democracy? I've done some searching but haven't found much.
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2021.10.21 12:21 Mysterious_Street935 8hr shift, 6hrs sick time, what happens if I get an occurrence?

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2021.10.21 12:21 SEHUN420 Can we share account (ps4/ps5)

Hello, my friend owns a ps4 and i own a ps5. Im a little bit afraid that i might get banned if i give him my account to play games i own. Is it safe? Wont we get banned for doing this? I read somewhere a year ago that sony are banning people for sharing accounts and using ps plus collection from ps5 for example.. Would mean the world for me if you could help. Thanks!
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