I am unattracted to my partner and feel horrible about it

2021.10.21 11:05 throwawayaday001 I am unattracted to my partner and feel horrible about it

I (32 M) and my partner (33 F) have been together for about 9 years. On the surface we are a happy couple and we both love, support and respect one another completely. Within the past year or two though, I have been becoming increasing unattracted to her for a few reasons and do not have anyone in my life I feel comfortable sharing this with.
To put it bluntly, there is a lot of hair in locations I would not expect to see it on a woman. And while I know every body is different and there is no "ideal woman" nor "ideal man" I just can't seem to get over it. A moustache has started cropping up a few years ago and has grown into a full on beard line. The hair is light in color but with any sort of bright lighting, it is all I can seen when we kiss, sometimes I feel a velcro affect on my own facial hair. It is at a length and density where I would have been proud of it as a pubescent boy. Not only that but there is chest hair that I frankly find repulsive, being a collection of long light colored hairs with a handful of inch plus long dark hairs, that again, a teenage me would have been psyched about showing off in the locker rooms.
Obviously this has had some impacts on our lives and I have not shared any of this with her at this point... I just don't know how and honestly I hate that I have been letting this get to me so much. Bottling this up on top of a few other relationship bumps we are going through has greatly added to my depression and while I have started addressing that with more seriousness, I just cant seem to get this particular issue out of my mind. This, in my mind, is one of those things that cannot be unsaid and the last thing I want to do is tell her that she needs to alter herself to make me happy - I don't want to disparage her or make her feel "less than" ... I just don't know how to handle or what to do with these feelings.
I don't know what I am expecting from posting this... maybe it will just help to vent it, maybe there are some out there who have gone through the same thing. Thanks for any input anyone might have.
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